Creating Life Style in a Click of Thought

It’s worth understanding right away that life style is not about achieving goals, but about how one lives in terms of the process itself. That is, how much you enjoy your work, recreation, hobbies and communication with loved ones.

A major contradiction in lifestyle

In today’s world, people are often in a hurry and simply don’t have time for their lifestyle. It all starts at school, when you first have to sit through your classes and then do your homework. And in all subjects you have to get excellent marks. It is from childhood that we are taught that it is important to have time to do everything. As a result, people try to do different things and have a lot of problems. It is easy to make sure of this:

1. It is now considered normal to always try to make more money and spend a lot of time at work.
2. Except that people need their rest and their free time.

As a result, there is a clear contradiction. A person has to work as long as possible and rest a lot at the same time. This leads to a lot of problems, because of which there is no lifestyle at all.

Living to the fullest

Almost everybody has worked out the principle ‘more is better’ for years and pulls the person in different directions. As a result, they try to have more freedom, travel more often and spend more time with their family at the same time. But it is worth understanding that very often family life and freedom are not related to each other. The same applies to trying to earn a lot and be with your loved ones more often at the same time. Obviously, the principle “more is better” does not work here.

What happens if you always try to be maximalistic?

Trying to be maximalist in everything creates a lot of problems. For instance, a person tries to secure a high standard of living for himself. He tries to buy nice things on a small salary and own a modern car. For this he takes loans and his standard of living gets lower.

The same goes for trying to have a family relationship and more freedom. It is impossible to do both at the same time and one gets into trouble. Although they often don’t even notice it themselves.

Obviously it is very difficult to try to do two opposite things. So it is worth knowing what actions to take in order to create your lifestyle.

It’s actually quite simple

Because people try to combine directly opposite tasks, they do not understand how to proceed: to devote more time to themselves or to meet friends more often. They want to do both, but it seems impossible.

Almost all people who do not have a full life style have such a point of view. It is a vicious circle from which it is very difficult to get out. However, if you know what to do, everything will work out. It turns out that in order to make life easier, you don’t have to put effort into certain things.

Paradoxically, that is exactly what it is. One doesn’t have enough time and money because one puts a lot of effort into these things, but they pull one in different directions. The result is a mixture of actions which do not correspond to each other. All you have to do is give up a few highs and things will quickly improve. Therefore it is very important to understand which highs are worth to refuse and choose priority actions.

Systemic Approach

As it has become clear, problems always arise when trying to maximize everywhere. A person does a lot of things. And much of it is not always necessary. As a result, such actions interfere with the system and should be abandoned. It is important to identify exactly what your goals are and maximise them. After a while, you will see that life has become easier and you can already think about your own lifestyle.